Busting Excuses

Why You Deserve a Boudoir Experience.

Busting Excuses

When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy, we are too crazy at work, or always having to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes it’s important to spend time with our spouse. We also use excuses like “I want to lose 15 lbs. first” and “I just don’t have the money right now!” I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self-love!

“I don’t have enough time for myself” 

It’s also important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is actually much easier said than done. Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say “ SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breath for a minute!” 

At the boudoir shoot you are able to breath and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look you get to see where your beauty really comes from and this lifts such a huge mental weight. 

You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once? 

I’m not where I want to be weight wise. I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size. 

Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT. 

I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you’ve heard me say it before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? Why do you have to fit a stranger’s messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? Why are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no 2 women are the same! 


“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.” 


This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot. 

Often we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and okay! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to put that spark back in ourselves and our marriage. I can show you that you have that inside you somewhere, and it might even ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well! 


Another thing to remember is that you don’t HAVE to wear super sexy clothing/lingerie. If you feel like this doesn’t reflect your personality, then there are many other ideas. I will gladly go over any concerns you have. 

A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now. 

Yes, a boudoir shoot is an investment. It is an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well. We do offer a variety of payment options. In order to book your shoot there is a booking retainer, and after that we can set up your payment plan for the remaining so that it will be easier to book a shoot.

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